“People spend more time, energy and money redesigning their kitchen, upgrading their technology or planning their next holiday than they do on their intimate relationship.”

The last three years - what I call ‘Love in the time of Corona’ - has put many relationships under more stress than ever before, leading to disappointment, disconnection and a yearning for something more meaningful.  While some intimate relationships have thrived with the enforced togetherness, others have felt challenged, seemingly beyond redemption.

Conflict, stress, a feeling that your needs are not being met, that you are not ‘seen’, different values, poor communication, unresolved issues, lack of intimacy, lack of security, lack of trust and a fear of what the future holds, has led many couples to seriously question whether they want to stay together, in this lack-lustre scenario, or part without anger and acrimony and resentment. Sadly many relationships could have been saved with the right intervention.

What if there is a better way? What if you can stop settling for a mediocre relationship and begin to enjoy life together again and create an empowering, fulfilling and conscious relationship where you are both seen, understood and valued? The fact is that relationships need constant tending, rather like a plant.

I’ve been working with individuals and couples for over 23 years now and am passionate about helping them create a new, vibrant, loving, inspiring, and fulfilling conscious relationship where previously they may have been struggling. Or helping them re-evaluate their relationship after a particularly challenging time such as the death of parents, ‘empty nest syndrome’, menopause, pressures of work or a long illness. For some it might be a desire to part with respect, kindness and an honouring of each other’s needs and they need a guiding hand to help them them do this.

Most relationship coaches focus on the problem. I focus on creating new possibilities, a new relationship whether together or apart, healing the wounds along the way by facing them head-on with deep understanding.

“You cannot have a fulfilling relationship when all you have to offer each other is the dregs of a hard day.”

Our need to connect and be close with another human being is innate, strong and incredibly powerful, an instinct that ensures our very survival. However, we’ve not really been taught how to share our lives in a way that works in this modern world. Old rules are no longer applicable or have run their course, and sometimes it feels as though we have just been flung together with no road map on how to communicate sufficiently well, even in this technologically-advanced era, to create the love, intimacy and cherishing that our hearts desire. Old-fashioned values that have stood the test of time seem to have fallen by the wayside, resulting in distress, upheaval and profound disappointment.

I have developed a very successful, proven and positive model tailored to your own needs as an individual or as a couple.